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12.31.2009 |
The end of the year is here, and I have made my
picks for the Top 10 books I've read this year. Keep
in mind that I'm not saying these are the 'best'
books of the year, just the ones I liked out of the
few I read. Most of the books I reviewed this year
were not actually published in 2009, but I limited
my Top 10 lists to this year's publications.
Anyway, you can check out my
2009 Review
Page for all the details!
Thanks to everyone who's stopped by and read this
site in 2009! I hope you have a very happy new year,
and we'll see you in 2010!
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12.29.2009 |
Time Travel Tuesday #22
For the final TTT of 2009, I thought I'd go back to
a new year's celebration from 2003. This picture is
of Nick and I in Gatlinburg. Nick was part of the
Parkwood youth group at the time, and we were on our
annual trip to Xtreme Winter. Who would've thought
that in a few short years we'd be members of the
same family?!
The youth aren't going to Gatlinburg this year, so
it's the first New Year's Eve I haven't spent with
teenagers in over a decade. Tricia and I haven't
decided how we're going to ring in 2010, but it
probably won't be with Sweet Home Alabama
(that's an Xtreme Winter joke). However you plan to
celebrate the start of a new decade this week, have
a happy new year!
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12.28.2009 |
I want to start today by wishing my parents a very
happy anniversary! As someone who has only been
married a short while, I admire those marriages that
stand the test of time, and I am thankful that such
a marriage was modeled for me as a I grew up. I hope
that my children can see a similar example from
Tricia and I in their lives. Happy 41st anniversary, Mom
& Dad!
And it's Monday, which means it's time for a weekly
football update:
The Tampa Bay Buccaneers
kept the win streak alive by traveling to New
Orleans and beating the Saints 20-17 in overtime.
After being down 17-0, the Bucs kicked a field goal
before halftime, then the defense held New Orleans
scoreless in the second half while Cadillac
Williams ran for one TD and Morgan Spurlock returned
a punt 77 yards for another one, forcing overtime
(after New Orleans missed a field goal attempt).
Tampa won the coin toss, took the ball, and drove
down the field to kick the game-winning, 47-yard
field goal.
Check out what Elias Sports Bureau had to say about
the statistics of the game:
It was the first time in NFL history that a team
with a record 10 or more games below .500 defeated a
team that was +10 or better. It was the third time
since November 2008 that the Bucs won a road game in
which they trailed by 17 or more points. All other
NFL teams have combined for only three such wins
during that time.
A few weeks ago, I was ready for Tampa to lose out
and get a high draft pick, but I have to admit that
it's exciting to see this team win, especially over
opponents with much better records. Tampa is young,
and I don't think Josh Freeman is going to be the
next Peyton Manning, but he's shown a lot of poise
and potential in a tough season. The defense is also
continuing to improve, and things are looking up for
2010. At this point, the Bucs are drafting pretty
high regardless, so now I'm pulling for them to
finish the season on a 3-game win streak and end up
4-12. Up next: home against the Atlanta Falcons
(8-7).
Games left: 1
Louisville Cardinals
(4-8) Season Completed
PRP Panthers (3-7) Season Completed
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12.27.2009 |
Merry Christmas! Many people are still celebrating
this weekend--but what exactly are they celebrating?
The birth of Jesus is certainly an event worth
commemorating, but it isn't the main point of the
story. Today's quote from Edmund Clowney
( The Unfolding Mystery, 11) helps us see
the bigger picture of redemption:
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The Bible has a story line. It traces an unfolding drama. The story
follows the history of Israel, but it does not begin there, nor does it contain
what you would expect in a national history. The narrative does not pay tribute
to Israel. Rather, it regularly condemns Israel and justifies God’s severest
judgments. The story is God’s story. It describes His work to rescue rebels from
their folly, guilt, and ruin. And in His rescue operation, God always takes the
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And that, friends, is what Christmas is all about:
God taking the initiative. God sent His only Son to
rescue sinners from the doom of their own making.
When Jesus was born in Bethlehem two millennia ago,
it was a clear sign that God was intervening for His
people.
Of course, the story did not start in the manger.
God's plan was set in motion "before the
foundation of the world" [Eph 1:4] and will
only be finally realized when Christ returns and
forever undoes the curse of sin and death.
But His birth remains a key part of God's salvation
story. And when the angel visited Mary to tell her
that she would give birth, he also told her some
other interesting things about who this child was.
The content of his message just happens to be the
content of my message that I'm preaching this
morning at Rockford Lane Baptist, so if you are
curious, come worship there!
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12.22.2009 |
The following is a long post about Santa Claus.
There's plenty more I could have said, but I tried
to keep it concise (sadly, this is about as
'concise' as I get) and to the point. I hope I have
come across clearly. I know this topic can generate
a lot of responses, but whether you agree or
disagree, I welcome any
comments
or feedback. Have a Merry Christmas!
The Santa Question
Should Santa Claus be a part of the Christmas
celebration for Christians? This is a question that
has come up several times in the past few years and
it is one that Tricia and I have discussed at
length. Seeing as we’re right in the middle of “the
most wonderful time of the year,” I thought I would
share our conclusions with you.
Santa is not Satan
But before we even get into that discussion, let me
clear a few things up right away:
1. I don’t hate Santa
Claus.
I’m not on an anti-Santa crusade, and I don’t think
that (in fine SNL Church Lady tradition) ‘Santa’ is
just a clever anagram for ‘Satan.’ My goal in
discussing this issue isn’t to minimize Santa as
much as it is to maximize Christ. I’m also not
trying to ‘ruin’ Christmas for anyone or rebel
against my parents out of some deep-seeded childhood
resentment; I’m just trying to share my thoughts on
this issue, so let’s all stay calm.
2. Santa is not a gauge
of spirituality.
If you use Santa as part of your Christmas
celebration, that doesn’t make you any less
Christian than someone who doesn’t. A person or
family’s maturity in faith has
nothing to do
with the use of Santa Claus. The Bible has many
things that serve as evidence of faith and maturity,
so we’ll let God’s standard continue to do its job
and not try to amend or adjust it in any way. I’m
not judging you, your family, or your faith based on
your approach to Santa.
3. This isn’t a
‘deal-breaker.’
Because those first two points are true, that also
means that the purpose of this post is not to try
and convince you one way or the other. It’s to
encourage you to
think through
these things in a discerning way, and that’s
all. If you agree with me, that’s great. If you
don’t, that’s great too. In the order of importance,
the use of Santa is pretty near the bottom of the
list. If you and I can agree of the deity of Christ,
His atoning work on the cross, His resurrection, and
His coming return—then I think we can still worship
and fellowship together even if we disagree about
Santa Claus.
I don't even have a
chimney
Having said that, now I’ll take some time to
(lengthily) explain why Tricia and I have decided
not to use Santa Claus in our family’s celebration
of Christmas. We have given this issue a lot of
thought over the past few years and reached our
conclusion together. There are a lot of factors that
go into it, but here are (in fine Baptist preacher
tradition) three main reasons that we have decided
not to include Santa:
1. It’s not true.
While there
was an historical Saint Nicolas who gave gifts
to the poor and destitute in the name of Christ,
there isn’t a jolly old man visiting your house on
Christmas Eve. While it’s easy to tell this to small
children without too many questions, as they age you
will have to continue to make up new and more
involved ways of explaining how Santa works.
Eventually, it will reach the point where you have
to admit you were lying, and then come up with a
reason to explain to your children that it is okay
for you to have told them this lie—but it’s still
wrong for them to lie to you.
I know most people cringe at calling Santa a ‘lie’
because they think it is a lie that
can be
justified. Which raises an interesting question: why
do people feel like it’s okay to make up a story
about Santa and use it for Christmas? I’ve asked
that to several people, and here are some of the
more common reasons I’ve heard:
a. It makes gift giving more
exciting.
As a parent of a small boy, I can certainly see the
appeal in having a technique that allows me to
encourage good behavior for a few months (“If you’re
not good, Santa won’t bring you any presents!”) and
allows for at least one night of kids going to bed
on time—or early! But why tell your children that
their presents come from a stranger? Why can’t the
gifts just come from mom and dad or other family
members? Will a child honestly be less excited about
opening a present because it came from a flesh and
blood person? That seems a bit far-fetched to me.
b. It lets people give more freely.
I suppose there is something to be said for giving
anonymously, but that’s not really what’s happening
at Christmas, is it? Everyone
except the
small kids knows who the gifts are really from.
Besides, what the historic Nicholas did was give
anonymous gifts to the poor, not members of his own
family, and he did it in the name of Christ, not the
name of Saint Nick.
And when people say that Santa lets them give ‘more
freely,’ they often mean ‘more expensively.’
Labeling a gift as ‘from Santa’ just to justify more
extravagant (or unnecessary) spending is simply
wrong. Although this is slightly off-topic, I think
most people would agree that Christmas is already in
danger of being over-commercialized and ‘consumer-ized’
to the point of emphasizing materialism and flat-out
greed. While I certainly have no problem with
exchanging gifts at Christmas, I don’t think the
best way to celebrate Christmas is exchanging
more gifts. If your kid cries because he doesn’t get that one toy he
wanted, he’s missed
the entire
point of Christmas.
c. It preserves the “magic” of
Christmas.
I know there are some theological concepts that are
hard for a kid to understand, but we expect them to
suspend disbelief over one man, countless toys in
one sack, and eight flying reindeer that
circumnavigate the globe in 24 hours. If they can
believe that (which is false) then why can’t they be
taught that the true ‘magic’ of Christmas is about
the glory of God visibly returning to His people
after a 400-year absence, the power of the Most High
and Holy Spirit overshadowing a young girl named
Mary, and God Himself taking on human flesh to save
His people from their sins. Both scenarios defy
conventional wisdom and ask for a certain level of
faith. But one is true and one
isn’t.
2. It can confuse people
about the true nature of God.
There are some things about Santa that are similar
to God: he sees all, he knows a person’s true
behavior, he generously gives gifts in an often
mysterious manner. But there are some things about
Santa that are not true of God as well. God does not
simply give us whatever we ask for, nor does He base
those gifts simply on our deservedness (and
thankfully so!).
I grew up in a Christian home that chose to use
Santa as part of the Christmas celebration, and I
don’t confuse him with God. So I’m not saying that
every kid will be unable to distinguish Santa and
God if you use both. In fact, some
atheists
encourage families not to use Santa Claus because it
might actually encourage believe in a god-like
being. The difference is, of course, that God is
real, has revealed Himself through His Word and His
Son, and is not a cosmic wish-granter or mere
behavior monitor. We don’t need to use a Santa Claus
to encourage belief in God; we have the actual Word
of God itself!
The point is this: using Santa is no guarantee that
kids will misunderstand the truth about God, and
often that does not happen. But I do know that many
adults see
God merely as a Santa-esque figure, and I can’t help
but wonder if perhaps that is in part due to the way
that we have used Santa at Christmas, causing that
line of distinction to blur.
3. It can distort the
Gospel.
For me, this is the most convincing (and convicting)
argument that finally persuaded me to leave Santa
out of my family Christmas. The basic principle of
Santa goes like this:
if you are
good, you will get presents. But the ultimate
meaning of Christmas goes like this:
no one is good
in God’s sight, and we don’t deserve any gifts, but
God still lovingly gave us the greatest Gift of all.
Now, I don’t have a problem with people being
rewarded for good work. I do my job each week and
expect a paycheck. Kids get allowance for chores,
too. In that sense, the kind of works-based system
of giving that Santa uses makes sense.
But not at
Christmas. That is perhaps the one time of the
year when the whole point of the
celebration—including any gifts we exchange with one
another—should remind us that we are undeserving and
cannot earn God’s gift; yet He gives it anyway.
Most parents can find ways to emphasize the Gospel
message alongside the Santa traditions. I’m not
saying it can’t be done or hasn’t been done well in
many cases. What I am saying is that the
potential
for misunderstanding is there and I would much, much
rather err on the side of caution when it comes to
sharing the Gospel in an undiluted and clear
manner—especially with my children.
…and to all a good night
So that's a brief summary of the main reasons why Tricia and I have
decided not to use Santa in our Christmas
celebrations as a family. But before I bring this
post to an end, let me
reassure some people with the following statements:
1. If you have chosen
differently, we respect that.
Like I said earlier, I don’t think that this is an
issue to divide ourselves over, and it is most
certainly not an issue that should cause disunity
among those who are celebrating Christ’s birth
together. If you use Santa, I’m going to assume that
you have thought through it and reached an informed
decision. I won’t question it with disrespect, and I
ask that you extend the same courtesy to us.
2. Not celebrating Santa
isn’t the same as ignoring or avoiding it. My kids will undoubtedly see Santa
at the mall or have people ask them “what’s Santa
bringing you this year?” When that happens, I’m not
going to start screaming and cover my children’s
eyes or ears! As they get older, we will explain the
historical Saint Nicholas and the way that many
people believe in Santa (like a fairy tale). We
won’t expect them to avoid it or ignore it, and we
won’t tolerate them being rude when people ask them
those questions, but we also won’t be telling them
that Santa’s real.
3. I’m not on an
anti-Santa crusade.
I have better things to do, especially at Christmas,
then to rail against everyone who has any semblance
of Santa in their homes, yards, or clothing.
Frankly, I have no desire to do so. Like I said
earlier, you and I can disagree on the use of Santa
and still be friends. We can still worship God
together and we can still celebrate Christmas
together. And, rest assured, Tricia and I are going
to work hard with our children to make sure they
aren’t the ones who tell everyone else that Santa’s
not real. They will learn the truth, but they will
also learn tact and respect for other people.
So will Santa be a part of your Christmas
celebration? Either way, don’t let Santa (or gift
giving, or family time, or anything else) take the
rightful place of Christ at the center of this
season. And please don’t blindly follow tradition
just for tradition’s sake. My prayer for you is that
you would continue to think through these things and
discern what is wise and best honors Christ in your
family.
Merry Christmas!
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12.22.2009 |
Time Travel Tuesday #21
Here's another one from recent years, as we go back
to 2007 for this picture taken at my parents' house
on Christmas Eve. Although you can't tell it from
the picture, Tricia was about five months pregnant
with Ethan at the time. Who knew that in two short
years Luke & Jessica would have had a daughter and
Tricia & I would be getting ready to welcome Baby
#2!
On another note, I found out yesterday that I am
preaching this Sunday at Rockford Lane Baptist
Church here in Louisville. Their pastor has had to
make other plans for this weekend, and he called me
to see if I was available for the morning service.
Since I hadn't planned on preaching, I haven't been
working on anything, so please pray for me as I try
to figure out what direction to go (and that I'll
have time to work on my sermon amidst all the
Christmas gatherings and festivities). Thanks!
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12.21.2009 |
Football season is winding down, but we've still got
a few more weekly updates to go:
Just when I'm ready for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers
to lose the rest of their games and get a top draft
pick, they roll into Seattle and--of all things-- win
by a score of 24-7! The Bucs were on the right side
of the turnover ratio this time, causing the
Seahawks to lose possession five times on four
interceptions and one fumble. It's nice to see Tampa
win, but at this point in the season, it really
isn't accomplishing much. I'm not saying they need
to intentionally throw games, only that in the big
picture a win now helps very little. Of course, if
they're going to win some games, they might as well
win out and finish 4-12. Sounds good until you see
who's up next: at New Orleans Saints, fresh off
their first loss of the year (13-1).
Games left: 2
Louisville Cardinals
(4-8) Season Completed
PRP Panthers (3-7) Season Completed
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12.20.2009 |
Christians often speak of faith, but what does a
life of faith look like? Samuel Ward
( Living Faith, 35 & 41) helps us answer
that question with today's quote:
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Place all your trust in the grace of Christ,
and it will crucify the old man. Be weak in
yourself and strong in the Lord, and by
faith you shall be more than a conqueror.
I do not promise you
that you will arrive at perfection, yet as
your grow from faith to faith, so shall you
grow from strength to strength in his
graces, till by degrees you will attain to
maturity in Christ. You will be a saint upon
the earth. You will be a light in this dark
world. You will be able to live in holiness
and righteousness all the days of your life,
with much more comfort to yourself and
credit to the gospel that strangers to the
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Ultimately, the life of faith is one that must be
lived. We can read about faith, learn about faith,
hear sermons about faith, watch others display
faith--but if we want to have faith, it must be
practiced. We must trust Christ more than ourselves.
We must believe God even when all circumstances seem
to conspire against us. We must hold fast, certain
that God is faithful.
When we do so, we will not only find our own faith
growing strong, but we will find that God is using
us as salt and light in this world [see Matthew
5:13-15] and is doing so in ways that are far beyond
what we could have imagined.
So when you are faced with a choice of faith today
(and we are all faced with such choices on a near
constant basis) pause and think about this: will I
trust God or myself? Will I do what is right in His
eyes or simply what feels good to me? Will I seek
His counsel above the advice of others? Bottom line:
will it be His way or my way? The choice is yours.
Choose faith and become more than a conqueror. [see
Romans 8:37-39]
In other
news: I haven't been posting a lot in December, and
that's partly because I've been busy working on a
new Sunday School series called The Family.
Twice a year, Parkwood has what we call Super Sunday
School where everyone (youth and up) meet
together in one big class for four weeks. We start
on January 10, so the study books need to be
finished and printed by January 3--so I'm staying
pretty busy with it! Please pray that I will have
wisdom as I write and time to finish this project
over the next two weeks. Thanks!
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12.15.2009 |
Time Travel Tuesday #20
The Ghost of Christmas Past isn't exactly
wearing himself out this week as we only go back 12 months for this edition of Time Travel
Tuesday. Today's picture is Ethan celebrating his
first Christmas, surrounded by his presents on
Christmas Day last year:
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12.14.2009 |
Another week of football is in the books. Any chance of a Tampa Bay
win? Yeah, right:
The Tampa Bay Buccaneers hosted the
New York Jets and got smoked 26-3. The offense
remains inept, unable to get any kind of running
game going, and any time a team in the NFL becomes
one-dimensional, it almost always equals a loss.
Why? Because the defense can predict what you are
going to do and force turnovers. Like last week, when QB Josh Freeman threw 5 interceptions
against the Panthers. The good news is that he
improved this week and...threw 3 interceptions.
Ouch. At this point, I'm actually leaning toward
cheering for the Bucs to finish the season with one win for the sole
reason of getting the #1 draft pick (which I would
like to see Tampa use on Ndamukong Suh, a monster DT
from Nebraska) Up next: a cross-country trip to play
the Seattle Seahawks (5-8).
Games left: 3
 Although the Louisville Cardinals
have no games left, they still
made some noise in the football world this week by announcing
their new head coach: Charlie Strong. He has a long
resume and most recently has been the defensive coordinator
at the University of Florida, whose teams have had tremendous
success--including two national championships and a
12-1 record this year.
From
all accounts, Strong seems like a solid coach and it
will be interesting to see how a defensive-oriented
coach does following two offensive-minded coaches in Petrino and Kragthorpe
(although Kragthorpe's teams never exactly sizzled
in the offense department). Recruiting season is already
underway, and Coach Strong should also be naming the
rest of his staff soon. I think it's a good hire and
my guess is that he will do some good things right away.
I'm thinking 6-6 next year and a bowl game, and
slowly building up to a more
competitive level within 3-4 years.
Louisville Cardinals
(4-8) Season Completed
PRP Panthers (3-7) Season Completed
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12.13.2009 |
Does God care if you go to church? Today's quote comes from
Mark Dever
( Proclaiming a Cross-Centered Theology, 114) and
explains the mistaken notion that many professing
Christians have when it comes to their involvement
in a local church:
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Most Christians in America only think of the gospel as saving them
individually, and thus completely neglect
the functional congregation-centeredness
that is supposed to mark our
discipleship…church is simply one more means
that Christians
may choose to use in order to grow spiritually if they find it
helpful, like their choice of music, a Bible
study, a devotional book, or a conference…
The idea that they should be fundamentally committed to one congregation
and submitted to the leadership there is a
foreign to them as eating locusts and wild
honey would be to most of us. It’s not even
so much that they
oppose
the idea; it’s just that they simply have
never even considered it.
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Christ died for the Church, and Christ Himself is
building His Church. While it is true in one sense
that the "Church" is an intangible, universal,
time-spanning entity comprised of all believers,
that is not the sense in which we are to interact
with it. The early apostles didn't speak of the
Church in metaphysical terms, but met together with
fellow believers regularly.
When we neglect or ignore the reality of investing
in a local fellowship (and allowing that fellowship
to likewise invest in us) we fail to understand the
role of the Church for believers. It is not a social
club or even merely a weekly boost to help us endure
another week. It is our family--brothers and sisters
in Christ--that we rejoice with, mourn with, and
walk through this life with. We help each other in
difficulty and cheer with each other in times of
joy. We hold each other accountable to the Gospel
and we testify to the genuine love of God displayed
most powerfully in the cross of Jesus Christ. We
disciple one another in Him.
The poet John Donne once said that "no man is an
island." He's right. God does not intend for you to
walk this road alone; in fact, He has gone to great
lengths to establish and build His church to ensure
the opposite. So don't neglect God's design any
longer; decide this very day to be a part of a
local, visible, present-tense Church.
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12.08.2009 |
Time Travel Tuesday #19
As this year's Christmas gets closer, here's another
picture from Christmas Past, this one of me, Tricia,
and Matt in 2002:
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12.07.2009 |
With Louisville missing bowl eligibility, their
season is officially over. So now it's up to the Bucs to help us
improve our win-loss record for the year. Let's see
how they did:
The Tampa Bay Buccaneers were
once again on the losing side of the contest as
their road trip to visit the Carolina Panthers ended
with a 16-6 loss. Tampa Bay QB Josh Freeman threw
for 321 yards but had 5 interceptions (ouch!) that
cost the Bucs any chance at being competitive. With
only four games left, it's starting to look like
Tampa's going to be a 1-win team. Up next: hosting the
still-in-the-playoff-hunt New York Jets (6-6).
Games left: 4
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PRP Panthers (3-7) Season Completed
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12.06.2009 |
Today's quote comes from Timothy Keller
( The Reason for God, 181) and discusses the
key principles of the Gospel, and how they affect
those who are in Christ:
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The Christian gospel is that I am so flawed
that Jesus had to die for me, yet I am so
loved and valued that Jesus was glad to die
for me. This leads to deep humility and deep
confidence at the same time. It undermines
both swaggering and sniveling.
I cannot feel superior to anyone, and yet I
have nothing to prove to anyone. I do not
think more of myself nor less of myself.
Instead, I think of myself less. I don’t
need to notice myself-–-how I’m doing, how
I’m being regarded-–-so often.
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At heart, almost every person is deeply concerned
with how others view them. We want to be accepted,
or recognized, or appreciated. The central message
of the Gospel is that, in Christ, we are accepted,
even though we are undeserving.
Let that truth sink in for a few moments as you read
this: "God demonstrates His love for us in that
while we were sinners, Christ died for us." [Romans
5:8] You are not better than anyone else--and you
don't have to be. You are not worthy of God's
love--but neither is anyone, and He gives it to us
anyway through His Son.
As we near Christmas, and the celebration of
Christ's birth, remember that our confidence lies
not in ourselves, but in God and what He has done
for us.
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12.01.2009 |
Time Travel Tuesday #18
Welcome to December! Since today's the first of the
month, we're only 24 days from Christmas, so I
thought I'd throw out a picture from Christmas Past
to help spread the yuletide cheer. Here's Tricia and
I at Christmas in 2005:
And since it's been a while since I've posted any
non-TTT photos, I also thought I'd give you a few of
the highlights from the last several weeks. Included
are some shots from our trip to the Newport
Aquarium, the extended family (on my side) from
Thanksgiving, and of course, a few shots of
Ethan--including one Tricia took as he ate a
powdered doughnut. Priceless!
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A B O
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My name is Mark and I was born in 1976.
> I am
married to my beautiful wife and best friend, Tricia.
> We
have an 19-month old son named Ethan.
> We have
another son due in February 2010.
> Tricia
also has a
blog.
Hers is better than mine.
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I'm Associate Pastor at
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